What does it take to stop running into these types of people? Can Guys Just Be Friends with Girls? Anyone that cant handle that isnt ready for a real relationship. I would never do anything to hurt him and it makes me feel really appreciative that he knows and trusts that. I have no problem because I love girls weekends. Call/text/in person, etc.? To M., it isn't a point of trusting my husband or not. 568 views, 38 likes, 3 loves, 3 comments, 74 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from El poeta boaner: El poeta boaner was live. Jealousy comes from a lack of trust. Yes. Of course I was a little disappointed but then he got mad and I had to accept it because I didn't want to lose him. I want to flirt, touch and pay lots of attention to him. What is good for one family isn't always what's good for another. Most importantly, he calls you when he gets home. 10. My boyfriend wants his friend, should we break up? I guess it's all in how you carry yourself. Then ask yourself if he really cares what you do. Be In Touch with Him. You spent the formative part of your relationship being someone you really are not by going to the bars with him often.leading. So would this be not allowed in your relationship? All about the power play. I think there is a huge difference when hanging out with friends is taking up more time than hanging out with family. Does He Wish To End It? I see nothing wrong with your scenarioI J. wouldn't venture into a bar alone. If he is out all night having "fun" and doing all this ****, hes not up to the challenge for being your boyfriend. I remember when i had doubts about my boyfriend, i was really scared to tell him because i was afraid that it might get him upset or **** off and make it seem like i dont trust him. He texts you while he's out with the boys? If they're traveling for a friend or family member's bachelor or bachelorette party, for instance, you might not be invited, so leaving you behind doesn't mean that they're pulling away. Also, you've officially met a women who has no attraction whatsoever to other women!! Started Friday at 03:52 AM, By Thats not appropriate for our relationship. I trust him to make choices that won't betray my needs and wishes (this wasn't always true). We've been going there for about 3 months now. 05-17-2012, 01:53 PM steve1282 : Location: Dallas. That's how long I have been here. My husband occasionally goes out with friends for a round of golf and then to a bar afterwards, I've never really given it much thought but I also trust him and am not worried. I can understand how those people who *enjoy* drinking, will likely go out often to do it. I feel like that is dangerous behavior. I was always like, I can't help it, we're in a bar and apparently I'm a hot commodity, ha! Press the ignition button, then turn on the gas; press and hold it again for three seconds, not four or two or you might as well start from the beginning. So no - when we were dating I did go out dancing quite a bit with my girlfriends - and of course we were hit on - but I never went home with anyone or to anyone other than my hubs. I think as long as a couple is totally happy and equal that's all that matters. Keep being yourself, good relationships are hard to come by, and people are only jealous of yours :). You know when you are dating someone who cares and you know when you are dating a player. since I'm an adult no one LETS or ALLOWS M. to do anything. that is the last message i want to send. And you allow that? khairete Suggest your wife that she can have time for herself too. He didn't let me know anything. I think a lot of the nervousness comes from being worried about looking like a loner or a weirdo, but when you . Naturally, the latter should raise more eyebrows. Of course it's important to have time away from your partner and a life of your own. Having solo hobbies like attending a weekend yoga class, playing a sport with friends, or exploring new coffee shops without your coffee-despising partner isn't a bad thing, but if your partner does these six activities without you, they're checked out of the relationship and the two of you might need to have an honest conversation about what's really going on. She puts relationship on hold. Third is that you seem to be insecure deep down about your bf's party animal past and don't trust him. It is all because of my trust issue. to get more tequila photos without a doubt. When you're young it's fun, but at 42 seems a bit pathetic. Each family and marriage/relationship should be striving to find its own balance which has its foundations resting upon fundamentals such as love, trust, hard word and communication. Just get him chipped like a spaniel at the vet so you can track him. I guess I J. don't see how going to a bar solo and getting into situations where there's lots of alcohol, music and men are hitting on you/questioning your relationship can be very good at all for your current relationship. If not, he'll just call you the next morning and explain his night.. you know? Tinder, the popular dating app, is no longer just for hookups. but things he says or does make you feel bad about yourself - and you can't really figure out why. i don't need or want attention from other men. you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to the. Started January 19, By I worked yesterday and then picked up my daughter and then had dinner and met her dad at the park so he could take her for the night. That's different. "When people start to contemplate breaking up, they tend to associate more with single people because they assume this is likely to become their lifestyle," Herring says. It's really important to M. that I have connected, powerful, deep friendships. They threaten to break up with you all the time. Warning signs that your male partner is emotionally controlling you. At some point it stop all of us out of here undertaking 2am. Do you really want a boyfriend who drinks heavily till he passes out? You get worried when you see your partner with someone else. I have a friend that I met on eharmony. Um, no. The only time I got really concerned was at the beginning when would tell me she was going out with a guy friend. i dont really know how to feel about this. I would personally feel like a prisoner if he didnt "allow" it and would find it unhealthy. And of course, a person of normal mentality, does place their relationship or marriage, first. I know that no matter who my husband meets, talks to, get hit on by, that he is devoted to M. and my kids and he feels the same way about M.. Most chicks out here don't go out to bars as singles. So..he and I need to discuss all this, and if he's not willing to change, I may have to walk. I tried to make friends with the girls, but it didnt help because when he made a comment about how good she looked in the thong, it showed no regard for me. . 2023 BDG Media, Inc. All rights reserved. So here is how four women describe their experiences when a man went down on them. My husband will not go out to bars or clubs without M., he thinks it is wrong and makes him uncomfortable.in his defense he is devilishly handsome and gets hit on like no one I have ever seen, so I get where he is coming from. Maintaining organization for your electronics is very enjoyable. But for M. it would be fine. My ex was like that and it was that he wanted to impress other people, couldn't care less how we felt that made him never being home okay. My husband HATES it!! but again, i think you're in a completely different place. First of all, guys NEED this time to well, do what guys do. Do I think it's "wrong" for other ladies and men to do that? "But if your partner has started going out more and leaving you at home, that could indicate that they've got one foot out the door. I do not care at all. I tell it like it is. Learn to trust your partner. But not everyone would know the difference. However, I understand about being concerned that he gets drunk, maybe has problems w/self-control.. I can tell you as a man, that he appreciates that, it shows trust, it shows that you are trying to grow in the relationship, and it shows that you love and care that he take time for himself. Ok, he went out without your permission, I mean, without notifying you. Usually the other one is watching the kids. if your partner does these six activities without you. React Reply Cleveland Follow Explorer Age: 36 , mho 37% +1 y If he can go out so can you. Method 2 Keeping Yourself Occupied 1 Organize a night out with your own friends. Make out you are. Whether he is hooking up with another girl or not, I'd question why he would be drunk often. Seinfeld (/ s a n f l d / SYNE-feld) is an American television sitcom created by Larry David and Jerry Seinfeld.It aired on NBC from July 5, 1989, to May 14, 1998, over nine seasons and 180 episodes.It stars Seinfeld as a fictionalized version of himself and focuses on his personal life with three of his friends: best friend George Costanza (Jason Alexander), former girlfriend Elaine . He has female friends too, but unless its a large group, I am not ok with that and he understands that. My husband likes to have a beer or two so he does go to the local dive bars with the guys after work. Sex is often a part of healthy, committed relationships, so if you two aren't getting intimate anymore, that might be an indication that something's not right. He has fun and I know he isn't sleeping around with his female friends when he goes. I know what it's like to love someone but know they aren't good for you. Being married does not mean you are a Monk or not a part of the world. It's not about permission but about respect because we don't want the other to feel uncomfortable. Yes I allow my husband to go out without M. no matter the gender. It depends on the context. Started Saturday at 12:43 AM, By That's a different matter. A few times a year I'll go out dancing with my friends (my husband despises dancing) and once in a blue moon I'll meet someone in a bar to chat. Wife of 8 years straddled and flirted with my friend last night while drunk What did you do guys if you really really miss someone but you dont want to text or call him? The answer isn't to NOT go to the bar or NOT get on FB. I trust him, too. An adult, should know how to handle flattery and/or flirtations. 10. My bf lives in the same town as me but i only see him when he`s not stoned or drunk. People need to stop being so sketchy and selfish. He goes with a buddy of his. He knows he can trust M.. 3. Inevitably he DOES get hit on by both men and women. he possibly has a minor drinking problem I'm in the same situation. He knows I'll come home relaxed and happy. I know it might be a challenge but just say hey i love you a lot but im feeling a little troubled lately. We ended up J. being friends. As far as I know he doesn't hug other women, pick them up or flirt with themif he did I would have a problem with that, because it's not the type of guy I'd want to be married to. So, on both ends of things, no worries. I do think individuals should have "M. time" and couples should have dates. Instead, men should conduct themselves. Short answer: yes, it's okay. We purchased the gift cert from the bar so we were seated in that section. He goes to bed without me (20 f) now and we sleep back to back. When youre in a relationship you dont just change the rules. you have no probable cause so don't get hyped up over a though. Also, my bf will flirt with girls, and I find out about it the next daythis doesn't make me too happy. My boyfriend and I met in Australia a few months ago after traveling Thailand together we both went our seperate ways, whilst remaining in a relationship. my boyfriend goes out all night and doesnt call or text me at all..we are in a long distance relationship and the next day he gives me excuses like i was "too drunk" and passed out. My husband works at a bar on the weekends. It would be nice, thats why its called a relationship! Not very often. 14. Check out Romper's new video series, Bearing The Motherload, where disagreeing parents from different sides of an issue sit down with a mediator and talk about how to support (and not judge) each others parenting perspectives. The cost should be reasonable, or if not, that money can go to a nice trip for the both of you or for your family trip. https://www.mamapedia.com/article/question-for-married-women-only, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/my-hubby-do-not-let-me-go-out-when-i-wanna-have-a-girl-night-outwhy, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/poll-on-men-and-frienships-w-women, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/can-guys-just-be-friends-with-girls-updated, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/can-men-and-women-be-friends-2673, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/discussion-dash-having-single-friends-when-married, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/opinions-on-having-guy-friends. I do the same thing for a girls night out. And I kinda think your J. as likely to get picked up having a coffee at starbucks. Anyways, so he is going out with him tonight, and I am trying my hardest to have faith and trust in him. By the time my husband and I got married, we were so done with bars/clubs/discos (this was the 80's). To M. that is not a friendship. (ok i'm being nice, i think it sends that message loud and clear, because men are horny pigs :) -said with love lol.) Bars are often pick-up spots and can offer temptation for someone who's on the fence in their relationship.". I LOVE to dance!! 1. Sorry, but I think that's wrong. No, I know it is. But I would care if he went with women , J. like he would not like M. sitting drinking or dancing with men. We trust each other. he doesn't drink at all and i practically never do. "met" virtually.). And my husband does not have a problem with it. You were. My boyfriend wants to go clubbing alone My boyfriend of one year who is long distance at the moment thinks it would be totally fine for him to go to a club by himself. and remind him that you both can talk about anything! Im in a long distance relationship myself, like we're in two different continents, it kind of ***** but its cool at the same time! If I wanted to go out to a bar with a bunch of girlfriends my husband would tell M. to have a good time and same for himthey guys go for a drink after work, sure join them (J. let M. know so I don't have dinner waiting). I don't want to ask for his attention. Although it's good for your relationship for both your and your partner to do things without the other person, some of the specific things that they (or you) do alone can actually give you some insight into how they're feeling about the relationship. Luckily for us both, neither of us are the 'bar/club going on a regular basis' kind of people. If it becomes a constant thing of going ot the bars all the time and it eats into your time with him, which is what my bf wants to do, then you may have something to worry about. Now, pull out the choke - but only three-quarters of the way - hit that button again. I kinda had a feeling you were probably like meaffected negatively by a past relationship. I'm 36 and he is 40, with two young kids who are adorable. You could talk to him about what he wants and what you want, and reach an agreement together. I don't say that he should stay with me all the time, but he can send me a message from time to time. But we can do that because we are older and have an understanding of what we want out of life. Feeling down or depressed is a common experience for many people at some point in their lives. try it, be honest, truthful, and if its meant to be, its meant to be. I really don't understand your answer, since when the hell does having fun mean not being into her? But everyone has different needs, and desires. I feel for you too. It is trying to control each other because deep down you don't trust each other to behave in a party environment. Just like the celebs when they have to kiss in movies, its nothing real, they still truly love their husbands/wives. He is the most amazing person in the world and I just don't know what to do. Help should I stay with him or not and it has been four long years that we have been together. So my boyfriend is becoming much more distant as of late. Fast forward to today, I had an awesome girlfriend, whom I encouraged to have her own life outside our relationship. He probably went to bars like 2-4 days a week. My boyfriend does this most weekends but worse promises to make plans with me then chooses to go out drinking instead turns off his phone or ignores me and stays out all weekend then comes running back always with excuses we spoke about this several times about how it upsets me to be waiting for him and then I hear nothing until the next day or 3 days later he doesn't even tell me half the time he is cancelling on me I don't even know where he is half the time so if it gets to that stage you are in trouble it is emotional torture. The constant fighting wouldn't help either, and I'd say that the relationship could be headed towards a breakup unless he wants to pay more attention to you. The funny thing was it was that attitude of his that I think made him sleep around. i dont really know how to feel about this. Started Monday at 06:41 PM, By We dont live together, we arent married. I saw some people I know and I guess we go there enough, some of the staff know M. by sight. Eventually I broke down, had a hard time with it, and she dumped me. He knew that I was not going to be hooking up with anyone. I've never been into the bar scenebut my fiancee doesn't get upset if I want some "M." time. Um, not if you don't let it. Seriously . ? 1. My boyfriend was a loner but when he made an effort to date me, he knew exactly what respect and proper behavior was. If it's a trend, however, you might need to do some reflecting. A guy, but went home with a girl. But even if that's your case, can you honestly say you don't have a hand in it? Like, the power play becomes important when it comes to understanding the experience. But if you notice that these things are happening more frequently, whether it's you or your partner who's doing them, they could be red flags that all is not well. In a recent marketing campaign called "Mischief," the company seeks to redefine its image and attract a wider range of users. Now I don't know how he would feel or a possible future boyfriend would feel. If I had asked questions, and made a couple comments, I am sure I could have had a hundred thousand posts by now too. It wasnt just that, he was a flirt. But when it seems like there's a sharp increase in time apart, that's not a good sign for your relationship.". I occasionally go to after work happy hour with a big group of co-workers. and yea i dont agree with how much he is going out and getting drunk. If you try to control things he will be running for the hills. IMO, this is one of those make or break moments of a relationship. During a casual dinner with three other couples, the guys repeatedly implored my boyfriend to go with them to a strip club. But even if I could go out it wouldn't be to a bar. Has she always been that way, or is this a recent development? He aint changing especially if you arent there. Your boyfriend is an adult who shouldn't have to notify you of all of his comings and goings. S H said it great, however i would add that the only way i go out is either with "the girls" or with my husband. Traveling for work aside, if your partner tries to leave you behind, that's probably not a great sign. If your boyfriend is going out without you, it doesn't necessarily mean he's trying to end things. **Updated, Discussion-Having Single Friends When Married. She dumped me for a guy she met there one night. New episodes air Mondays on Facebook. going out alone indicates infedlity " potentially" or alcoholism. I never expected much because I knew the type of person I was dating. And adding alcohol to the mix definately doesn't help. Nice. and i understand exactly what youre saying but when you do talk to him you have to have to bring up his drinking and your concern of him not calling. The answer is as simple as the nose on your face. Now sometimes I will go out ot a bar with some of my friends. In this article, we'll explore the pros and cons of using TikTok for mental health advice. "[I]f you find that your partner is more engaged with text messaging friends or on social media when you're with them, this is a sign that they are not present in the relationship," Hershenson says. Wind him up make him jealous. He just wants you to look the other way. The premiere was later recognized as the all-time most successful cable series launch, with DVR viewers the . The "New Age" opinion. what do i do? Just stop expecting him to be your boyfriend. Even though I know he wouldn't just the thought of my boyfriend getting drunk worries me that he will make a bad decision. Night after Friday night, he'd ask about my week, make jokes with me during lulls in the bar rush, and never charge me for my vodka buzz. It appears by what you said, that you *like* the attention you are getting when you go to the bars. He asked it so much I feel he was thinking I was lying to him. he'll want me to stay in touch with him when I go outbut then once he goes out its MIA for hours and hours. So I asked him and he said the girl bit him. You can't get mad at him for spending time with his friends, just like he doesn't have the right to get mad at you for hanging out with your friends in return. Just calming say you will be "going out tonight/the weekend" for some fun with friends, he can enjoy himself with his. If im with someone i trust fine, go have fun. That is exactly what's going on with me. Go out one night and iignore his calls till the next day and then just say oh sorry baby I was wicked drunk. Price: $18. You still have freedom. Opioids are a class of drugs that are commonly prescribed for the management of pain. This would allow him to distance himself from unpleasant feelings and dissociate from the discomfort of underlying mental problems. When guys go to strip clubs to ogle "hot . This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. Well, people who babysit seem to be scarce where we live so yes we go out to bars with friends and not each other. He asked for nothing in return. Ziff Davis, LLC BBB Business Review. My ex cheated on M. once and i had him on a very short leash for a while. I don't visit bars very often. "Breaking up evokes a lot of really strong emotions in people," Dr. Freitag explains. I had to sleep with him I was his wife, she chose to sleep with M.. Effed up but true. But it got old. Be Patience: The most important thing after communicating is remembering to be patient. My kuwait he text me day and night but no telphone call. Ask him like if he could give you some pictures of beautiful places, or video calls you so it feels like you are there together. Why boyfriend doesn't call? Yes, A LOT in his profession. Started February 13, By If my husband is going on a site visit alone with herhe usually tells M.J. in case I get a call he is out and about with a young blonde female that is not M.lol. Our relationship as a family is great, we all get along, ex-wife included. So drinking isn't something we *enjoy* doing. Tell him you also have a good time there even when you cannot wait to see him again. It J. seems silly to worry when there is J. nothing to worry about. Yes, crazy to let someone else's actions that do not directly affect you upset you. blissfulblue By But he lets M. dance with who ever when we go out J. so he doesn't have to get out on the floor. Luckily, we have every other weekend to ourselves when our kids are at our ex's house. See how he likes it. ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, 21 hours ago, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Monday at 07:16 PM, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Monday at 07:24 PM, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Monday at 07:29 PM, By Maybe you happen to have a lot of bi-sexual friends. And yes, we've been hit and and continued to be bothered even AFTER we've told them we're married. So I dont think there would be problems. LOTS of women purposely go after married men. Here's the thing he knows you are uncomfortable with it, doesn't push it with you, and you still gave him the green light. A "spouse" is an adult. I am the same way. Everyone on this site is so over dramatic! Having a "Guys" night. I guess I have.. Guy didnt wish me happy birthday am I wrong to be upset? He has never given M. a reason to worry about that even if he went with females. 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